We all know about love, some time
or the other we have come across it, either in it or around it, but very little
do we know that the unconditional love that we talk about is what a mother has
towards her child. No matter what condition or situation we are in, our mother
will never stop loving us and we know she’ll be always there supporting and
caring for us. But vice-versa is not true, sometime or the other there had been
a situation where we have ignored and hurt her just because of our selfishness.
Think about it...
This was about unconditional love;
now let’s talk about normal love- which is simply based on trusts, beliefs and
situations. Let’s go a level deep into this. When we are in love with a person,
we are actually in love with that person’s nature, behaviour, attitude,
character and emotions (how he/she reacts in a particular situation). As time
passes these things change gradually and a time comes when these small changes
brings in a drastic change in that person, because day by day nothing changes
but when we look back after an instance, then a transformation have already
taken place by then. So it is very much possible because of same nature,
behaviour, attitude, character and emotions that we loved once, now we don’t
feel like that and we actually stop liking the fact that we were in love with
him/her for that same reason. The love keep on diminishing day by day, because
it’s not possible to just stop loving somebody at random. And a time comes when
the love is gone and only the relationship remains. When one reaches at such a
stage in their life, it would always be better to part ways with due respect
because otherwise we would be only leading a suffocating and forced life of
someone else upon us.
Now by this we can also conclude
that the vice-versa is true i.e. if in past we have not liked any person for
his/her set of behaviours then it is possible that in due course of time we may
fall in love with that person may be for the same reasons or some other. It is
surprising but true. It’s all about paradigm shift.
At last I would like to say that
this is just a thought of mine, not a generic issue. It does not happen with
everyone and yes exceptions are always there...
